Lucky in love

If I hear “It’ll happen when it happens” one more time, I might have to go take a break to plant my feet in the dirt and scream amongst the trees. As a love coach, I see this to be a MAJOR mistake smart women make when looking for a great relationship.

Why would you ever let chance take over when it comes to the most important experience you will ever share in your lifetime? 

LOVE.

It’s what makes life worth living…

It’s what makes us feel alive…

It gives us butterflies and makes the world technicolor…

And love has the power to heal.

More than all of the money in the bank, adventurous traveling experiences, the success in your career and amazing times with your friends.

So, why would you treat love so flippantly?

Designing a plan to meet, date and fall in love with the partner of your dreams isn’t desperate.

It’s not naive to dream about having love…but it is naive to think it will just happen, or you can read a few books, manifest it or wait for divine timing to find your soulmate.

The healthiest, most passionate relationships aren’t like getting a promotion at work or buying a car in the sense that those ‘things’ don’t have a soul. But there is one big similarity…

Basically, you decide you want it, you work hard, you KNOW what steps to take to get it, and then boom you get it.

The problem is most women don’t know WHAT steps to take.

So, they just wait. Or say, “there are no good men left.”

We make things happen in life, not because we are lucky, but because we work hard to become READY, and other people see it and FEEL it.

You nail a job interview when you are incredibly talented, experienced and eloquent. Your employer feels it. They have a ‘sense’ you are the ‘one’ out of the hundreds of applicants. And they WANT to hire you.

This is exactly how dating works…

We have to be so incredibly magnificent and so ready for our partner to truly see our uniqueness, our softness, our open heart and the value we will bring to their lives.

Kismet is magical. It happens all of the time. But it happens to those who are READY…and smart!

You are successful in your career, you’re cultured, you plan a luxury international vacation like a pro, you’ve successfully raised children, you’re a rockstar woman!

But are you ready for a loving man?

The couples you see out hugging at the park, kissing at your friend’s engagement party last weekend, looking at each other from across a crowded room as if they’re the only ones in the room…

They all had a plan of action. They had a mentor, a coach, a rock solid road map.

I love therapy, but it’s no wonder why so many of my clients are therapists and doctors…

They don’t know how to FIND love. They don’t know the action steps. They just dig into past trauma which is valuable for your overall wellness, but not to find love.

I am often known as the love coach who coaches other love coaches because so many of them are single.

They are often the ones teaching manifesting and self-care…but they don’t have the ACTION plan either to find good, quality partners.

Even matchmakers…so many women spend $10,000+++ on matchmakers only to realize they are just going to give you 5 setup dates and the men may look good on paper…but that doesn’t equate to love.

So, the first part of the action plan is to stop waiting for him to show up and finally change up what you’re doing that’s not working.

And if you’re out on a limb feeling desperately confused on Plenty Of Fish and Tinder…

It’s no wonder you’re still searching…

Of course, great men and women are online. I have many clients who meet online. But it’s because they have a plan.

Are you so jaded from so many bad first dates off the internet…or maybe you’ve experienced no REAL dates, just a lot of bad texts, sexting messages and ghosting?

The truth is that it’s not YOU. You are beautiful and love is your birthright. But you probably do not know how to take the next step.

When I tell my ladies about a game plan, I mean a really simple roadmap to get you from lonely to meeting the amazing partner you just simply click with…the one who makes it feel like it was kismet.

A clear plan includes getting commitment ready, understanding how to date the right ones, and how to get the right ones to even show up!

Knowing how to communicate to your flame in a way that’s not desperate and doesn’t scare them away…but in a way that makes them crave more, and fall in love…

This is a specific action.

It’s your time to find love.

I can’t wait to help you get there.

Much love and light,
Kelsy

P.S. To work on a game plan, book your free call with me here if you’d like more in depth-coaching on your love struggles so we can help point you in the right direction.

P.P.S. This coaching session is only for those who are READY to do the work, ultra-committed and dedicated to a life full of love and want to invest time, money and energy to make the changes to meet their dream partner NOW!